Lindsey Bonistall’s parents
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- February
- 5
Mark and Kathleen Bonistall of White Plains are in Wilmington, Del. this month for the trial of the man accused of killing their daughter, Lindsey. She was a University of Delaware sophomore when she was strangled to death nearly two years ago in her off-campus apartment.
They listened intently, sometimes tearfully, on Friday as the prosecutor detailed how Lindsey died. I can only imagine what went through their minds later, during the defense’s opening statement, when Lindsey wasn’t even mentioned at all and the only focus was on the years of neglect and abuse his lawyers contend made the alleged killer, James Cooke Jr., mentally ill.
Today, they skipped the morning session at the New Castle County Courthouse, waiting in the hallway outside Courtroom 8B until it was safe to go back in. The prosecution was playing the crime scene video for jurors. Mark and Kathleen didn’t need to see how a fire had destroyed Lindsey’s apartment and how her body was left in the bathtub covered by charred debris.
The toughest thing to watch might have been the scenes of her bedroom, even though that room was furthest from the bathroom and sustained the least fire damage.
First the camera showed a street sign from Garretson Road, the family’s address in White Plains, tucked behind her bedroom door. Lindsey may have left for college but she had never strayed very far from home.
Then the camera kept passing the open window, so the greens of the park next door and a single tree were in stark contrast to the blackened walls inside. It was hard watching because you could picture Lindsey taking in that view while she practiced guitar, or finished an article for the school newspaper, or found new snapshots to add to her large wall collage.ÂÂ
Lindsey sitting in her room, enjoying that view, “having the time of her life” as the prosecutor put it on Friday. Those are the memories Mark and Kathleen should have when they see that apartment.





God gives us a light and he creates the fire
that took Lindsey life
The pain will never heal our hearts…....
what ever the verdict it will never be enough..
Lets us hope that the light never creates
a fire again
PeaceOut off Campus Shines in Lindsey light
For Lindsey’s family….......
You may not be able to touch her
But you will always be able to feel her…...
PeaceOut—Suzy Bubbles
surely we all would live in Peace and Harmony
God gives us a light and he creates the fire
that took Lindsay’s life
The pain will never heal our hearts…....
what ever the verdict it will never be enough..
Lets us hope that the light never creates
a fire again
PeaceOut off Campus Shines in Lindsay’ light
For Lindsay’s family….......
You may not be able to touch her
But you will always be able to feel her…...
PeaceOut—Suzy Bubbles
Thank you Jon, for remembering that Lindsey was a person with a loving family. It’s too easy, when you’re on the outside looking in, to see the facts, the stats, the legalease – and lose the humanity in it all.
Lindsey was such a vibrant force – one that could never be truly conveyed in words on a newspaper page. But I am grateful for your commitment to stay focused on her life force and your eloquence in your coverage.
Peace out,
Aunt Sue